Let’s dispel the notion that forgiveness is equivalent to weakness. That concept is ludicrous! It is worse than ludicrous. In many cases it is a cop-out, a rationalization that allows one to avoid the courage, conviction and strength required to forgive. For others it may simply be that they misunderstand what the concept of forgiveness actually means. It is widely thought, based on my observations, that to forgive someone is to “let them off the hook.” That is not forgiveness. That is denial and avoidance.

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